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Coach Cindy Soto is the Founder & CEO of Me First Now, LLC whose platform serves Blended Families and Women starting over.

From a struggling single mom living paycheck to paycheck to a successful entrepreneur, Cindy's courage, strength and determination have inspired fans worldwide and helped countless women discover their breakthroughs, conquer the tough times and continue to live an abundant life. 

As Founder and Chief Executive Officer of Me First Now, LLC Coach Cindy is on a mission to help women navigate through tough times like divorce or loss, recover and move forward into a more empowered future. As they navigate the unknowns of being alone, starting over, financial issues, legal issues, and so much more Me First Now is a safe place for comfort and guidance. Learning that these obstacles are temporary and too shall pass. 

Me First Now Coaching also offers coaching for Parents and the Family as they navigate merging families. There are so many unknowns of faith, finances, and his/mine/ours that it is crucial to be guided through the process so you can live a happy life as a family.

Coach Cindy’s parents were divorced when she was very young. She has three sisters. Both her parents remarried to incredible bonus parents. She had 4 “step” sisters and 1 “step” brother. Although she never uses the term “step” they are all brothers and sisters. She would soon find out the dynamic of being in a blended family.

Coach Cindy married her high school sweetheart in 1994, and had three amazing boys and one girl by the age of 26. They were very young and found themselves divorced after 5 years of marriage. Coach Cindy found herself struggling for the next 8 years until she met her best friend and love of her life. He had 4 boys, she had 3 boys and a girl. It was definitely the Brady Bunch! In fact, they were casted for the TV Show Interracial Brady Bunch! They married within 6 months, moved the families into one big house and merged lifestyles. 

This is where it all began! Coach Cindy navigated the next 13 years raising the kids, tending to her husband's and kid's needs...plus working full time. To say the least, she put herself last and neglected herself.

She endured all while the kids were taken care of and her husband thrived in his business. Unfortunately, she was left crumbling. Many nights were spent passed out at 2 am and waking up by 4 am to make sure lunches were made and breakfast was ready before anyone woke up. Can you relate?

After 13 years of marriage and the last child to graduate high school, she was served with divorce papers. Although you'll hear Cindy's story leading up to the divorce,  the emotions that followed were unbearable. Her dream of traveling the world after all the kids graduated was shattered. Her dream to grow old with her best friend was shattered. The dream of enjoying her precious grandkids and spoiling them together was shattered. It was a pivotal moment. Her marriage was over...along with her dreams. What WAS vs what IS would quickly become her new reality. Cindy had to decide quickly. Decide to grieve and move on or go into a cacoon and shrivel up. 

Coach Cindy will take you on her journey, share her very raw story, her pain, her defeat and then share her comeback. She will share her incredible journey back to finding herself again without guilt. How she regained her happiness that laid dormant for so long.  She shares the hope that everyone can find again and faster by sharing her roadblocks, setbacks and comebacks!

Coach Cindy will be releasing her Me First Book Series about Relationship Compatibility - What to know before you commit, women starting over unapologetically and how to merge a stepfamily successfully. Coach Cindy will set a road map for women and blended families that are starting over and need the CliffsNotes to success!

Coach Cindy graduated from Arizona State with a Bachelor of Science in Sociology. Her emphasis was on the social deviance of families, children and relationships. Families need the toolbox and resources to resolve underlying internal conflicts. That's the foundation for success!

Coach Cindy resides in Elk Grove, CA but travels the world helping women and families. Her mission is to help women and blended families lead a more abundant life as they restart their journey after divorce or loss. 

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